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When a Parent Has Dementia

You may not agree on everything. You can still build a care system that works — for your parent, for your family.

$5.99 The Sibling Care Partnership System

Dementia doesn't just change your parent. It tests every sibling relationship in the family.

When a parent is diagnosed with dementia, the caregiving questions arrive fast — who does what, who pays for what, who makes the hard calls — and they arrive at exactly the moment siblings are least equipped to answer them calmly. When a Parent Has Dementia offers a structured way through that chaos: the Sibling Care Partnership System, six essential elements for building care-sharing that's fair without demanding it be equal. The book includes 25 real-life difficult-conversation scripts, a Family Care Dashboard for tracking tasks and costs transparently, a Fair Contribution Assessment, and a 20-plus worksheet Sibling Care Toolkit — practical tools for families who may not agree on everything, but still need to build something that works.

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The Sibling Care Partnership System
Six essential elements for fair, sustainable family care — sharing the load, managing money transparently, and making decisions together even when siblings disagree.
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25 real difficult-conversation scripts
Ready-to-use language for the conversations siblings dread most — money, unequal effort, disagreements over a parent's safety and independence.
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The Family Care Dashboard
A practical system for tracking tasks, people, costs, and deadlines transparently, so contributions are visible instead of assumed or resented.
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The Fair Contribution Assessment
A structured way to account for money, distance, time, and circumstances — because fair doesn't always mean equal, and this book helps families name that honestly.

"You may not agree on everything, but you can create a care system that works. For your parent. For your family. For the long run."

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Stop letting dementia care become a source of family conflict.

A practical system for sharing care, costs, and hard decisions fairly among siblings. Available on Kindle.

Frequently Asked Questions

It's most effective when at least one sibling is willing to introduce structure, even if others are initially resistant — the scripts and tools are designed to open conversations, not require everyone's buy-in from day one.
No. The focus is specifically on the family logistics of shared caregiving — responsibilities, costs, communication, and decisions — not medical or treatment guidance, which the book directs to healthcare professionals.
The Sibling Care Partnership System is built for multi-sibling families, but the Family Care Dashboard, worksheets, and decision-making tools are useful for any family caregiver organizing care and costs, sibling or not.

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